{"id":592,"date":"2015-12-09T01:00:47","date_gmt":"2015-12-09T06:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/StealtheShow.com\/podcast\/?p=592"},"modified":"2020-02-24T07:09:16","modified_gmt":"2020-02-24T12:09:16","slug":"unlock-erotic-intelligence-esther-perel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/StealtheShow.com\/podcast\/unlock-erotic-intelligence-esther-perel\/","title":{"rendered":"055 Unlock Erotic Intelligence in the Bedroom and the Boardroom with Esther Perel"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/StealtheShow.com\/podcast\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/128_Esther-Perel-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"685\" height=\"685\" \/><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none;\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/12439292\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/backward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/2e2d51\/\" width=\"100%\" height=\"90\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Want to learn how to unlock erotic intelligence in the bedroom and the boardroom? Listen in as I interview\u00a0Esther Perel,\u00a0who is an author and a couples therapist. She\u00a0has been recognized as one of the world&#8217;s most original and insightful thinkers about couples, sexuality, and the peculiar paradoxes found in modern marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Esther Perel wrote her first groundbreaking book called, &#8220;<span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0060753641\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B00BP570ZM&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=httpwwwmichac-20&amp;linkId=WO2SM7XCFCM3THH4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mating in Captivity<\/a><\/span>,&#8221; which introduced Americans to the inherent conflict between emotionally safe but boring intimacy, and thrilling but potentially risky eroticism, love, and lust.\u00a0 In 2017, she released\u00a0her new book, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/State-Affairs-Rethinking-Infidelity\/dp\/0062322591\/ref=asc_df_0062322591\/?tag=hyprod-20&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=312134205520&amp;hvpos=1o3&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=1046735192492669310&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9007178&amp;hvtargid=pla-539487061326&amp;psc=1\">&#8220;The State of Affairs: Cheating in the Age of Transparency.\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>The New York Times<\/em>, in a cover story, named Esther\u00a0the most important game-changer on sexuality and relationships since doctor Ruth, and her two critically-acclaimed TED talks have reached almost 10 million viewers. And she&#8217;s been a guest on many radio and TV programs, including Oprah, the Today Show, and the Colbert Report.<\/p>\n<p>Find out\u00a0more about <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.estherperel.com\">Esther Perel<\/a><\/span> and her online relationship workshops and\u00a0courses.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>How You Can <em>Steal the Show<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The cause of performance anxiety in the bedroom.<\/li>\n<li>Why people have little understanding about their roles in intimacy and how to learn about it.<\/li>\n<li>Attraction + obstacle = excitement \u2013 an important equation for relationships in the bedroom and in the boardroom.<\/li>\n<li>How you can keep the erotic equation alive in a relationship when you already know you are committed to each other for life.<\/li>\n<li>How to go after what you want with more assertiveness.<\/li>\n<li>How the fundamental improvisation technique of \u201cYes, and\u201d can be used in the boardroom and bedroom to help move your life forward.<\/li>\n<li>How do you know when the fit is not right, at work or in a relationship, and it&#8217;s time to leave.<\/li>\n<li>Do you tend to care so much and take too much responsibility?<\/li>\n<li>How to end a business and personal relationship.<\/li>\n<li>The paradox of life \u2013 security and adventure, and how it applies to your speaking.<\/li>\n<li>What you can do today in your relationship to create something actionable.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Connect with Esther Perel on <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/user\/perelesther\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">YouTube<\/a><\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/pages\/Esther-Perel\/161559836710\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Facebook<\/a>,<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/estherperel\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Twitter<\/span> <\/a>and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/estherperelofficial\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Instagram<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Esther&#8217;s\u00a0TED talks:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship?language=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The secret to desire in a long-term relationship<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved?language=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Rethinking infidelity &#8230; a talk for anyone who has ever loved<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Want to learn how to unlock erotic intelligence in the bedroom and the boardroom? Listen in as I interview\u00a0Esther Perel,\u00a0who is an author and a couples therapist. She\u00a0has been recognized as one of the world&#8217;s most original and insightful thinkers about couples, sexuality, and the peculiar paradoxes found in modern marriage. 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